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In The Gaps

Ever had that moment when you’re breezing through a book and, like screeching tyres, it occurs to you a critical item, character, or event has cropped up in a way that’s either impossible or suggests you must have missed an earlier clue somewhere? Me too.

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As a writer, it is highly frowned upon by readers and writing coaches alike to pull your reader out of the story and send them flicking back through the story to play catch-ups—unless, of course, it’s a brilliant plot twist they want to revisit. Worse: what if they cannot find the missing clue BECAUSE YOU FORGOT TO PUT IT IN?! Imagine this as an author. Gulp.

I’ve not had a MAJOR gap in my novels that I’m aware of 😬, but after releasing Immortal Mistake I noticed something right at the end that bugged me. It’s not an error, perse, but it is a bit of a, ‘Hang on, how did they get that back?’ question. (Feel free to try figure it out and let me know what you think this is. 😉) But like every writer, I’ve come across plenty of gaps during manuscript development.

This funny Insta reel depicts well how it feels when you think you’ve done the hard work getting your manuscript in shape and you have all those ends tied up so neat, but then … da-dom—plot hole!!!!!

Have you ever felt like life has thrown up a story gap? Those, ‘How did I get here again?’ or maybe, ‘There’s something I’m missing,’ moments. Maybe it’s not a gap, but a series of little choices leading to what feels like a major deviation from your life “plan” or intended goal. Maybe you took a risk [business, life, relationship etc] and there was a critical piece of information or backstory you didn’t factor in or were not provided, and now you’re at an unsolvable impasse.

As a writer hitting these barriers, it can really put you on your tail as you try and figure out a solution. ‘What now?’ blares in ugly mocking tones. Sometimes it can derail your creative flow or make you want to crawl in a hole for a while to nurse your ‘I thought it was working so well’ lament. But often it isn’t as bad as it first seems.

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Sometimes there may be unforeseen benefits for the story that come from the plot-hole wrestling process. Other times, at the perfect moment, you might be provided information that flips the whole thing on its head in the most brilliant way. Love those type of solutions!

The point is, an ‘impossible’ roadblock or crushing disappointment doesn’t have to result in the entire story being thrown away. Get the life parallel? We might just need a good sleep [a good cry??] and a bit of perspective. As goes the hero’s journey, we might need to rally the troops [call in some help] and start changing those decisions that have led us down that bumpy path of disappointment. I’ve even had situations where change comes through the most impossible solutions, as if hand delivered by divine appointment. And then there is the dawning realisation that, in some circumstances, this is where we needed to be all along.

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If you feel like you’ve got some story gaps, are facing unexpected roadblocks, or other disappointment, take heart. No part of a story is wasted. With a little help or purposeful adjustment, a new path can be forged, even in unexpected ways—because the story to come is so worth pressing through those moments.

Pay it Forward

I love it when my friends achieve a big milestone. In fact, this year I’m set to celebrate a huge achievement for two of the folk in my direct writing group. (I’m nearly bursting to tell you, but more on that in future blogs. Sorry!!! But I can say yay! ) On the creative successes front, I know that will just be the start. 

At times like this I’m reminded of the joy of sharing the success of others—and how over the years, others have shared my successes.

On the writing front alone, my writing group have rolled up their sleeves so many times on my account to make book launches and events a success. (Thanks Quirky Quills!!) Many of them were there to see my stunned shock at being an award recipient, knowing firsthand the blood, sweat and tears behind that accolade. They’ve seen me overstressed, ecstatic, horribly ill one week out from my second book launch, disappointed, frustrated, and so happy I could float. (Wild ride, right?)

But isn’t it pure delight to know we get to be on the cheer squad of others in their life adventures? What a great opportunity to pay forward the support others have invested in us!

With 2020 shaping up to be an exciting year on the writing front, I’d best get my practical pompoms ready! (And maybe a box of tissues or two, ‘cause you know how these things go. Happy tears. Stressed tears. Just because tears. And the occasional ill-timed head cold!) 

I bet you can also think of people who’ve supported you through the highs and lows of life’s journey. I love how we have those people in our network and that it’s a two way street. And you know, I think everyone can do with a few extra bodies on their cheer squad.

So as we stride into this new year, can we think of anyone we’d like to cheer on? What about those who might be new to our circle? Are there practical ways we can get behind what they’re doing and encourage them towards their goal? If not, maybe it’s time to put an eye out and sign up!

What an Amazing Adventure!

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAToday our Write Life series guest is the delightful, hugely inspiring, and always encouraging Anusha Atukorala. Anusha is one of those people who brighten the world wherever they go, and even when life offers lemons, she not only makes lemonade, she drops in a couple of ice cubes and makes it sparkle. It’s an absolute pleasure to host her today and I’m looking forward to reading about her ‘write’ amazing adventure!

 

My “Write Life” has been a remarkable journey – not without its bumps and twists but also with a cartload of joy and fun thrown in. It has been one of deep fulfillment not because of the millions I have yet to earn! But due to the immense satisfaction derived from the writing process. So … what have I learnt during this exciting voyage?

First. About life. Writing has forced me to reflect on my journey and what it’s all about. It has been a teacher in its own right. Rather than having it all sorted out in my brain and then verbalising it – I find that the writing process helps me organise my thoughts and learn new lessons from life. Putting it down helps me know myself better. Interesting. Further, it has reinforced my life values. That of working hard, of persistence, of refusing to give up against the odds, of not expecting instant results, of being faithful.

During the past few years, I’ve been challenged by my own writing – like an injection which turns back on the nurse administering it, to pierce her own skin instead, (ouch)! Or like a boomerang that returns to bop one on the head. I’ve often blogged, confident I was living true to what I’d written about. However, no sooner was my blog published than I’d be urgently challenged. If I’d written about forgiveness, there’d come a difficult person to trip me up. If I wrote about trusting God – there’d arrive a tough scenario where trusting didn’t come easy. Writing has forced me to own responsibility over my life and my actions. It has also shown me that just like my writing, I am still a work in progress.

And then, I’ve learnt the value of doing what’s important in life – not pleasing others or doing what brings outward reward – but doing what feeds my spirit and honours God. I’ve discovered that there is an important common thread in fiction and in real life. The depth of a good story is often the element of mystery in it. ‘Things are not what they seem.’ Life is much the same. Things are not what they seem. What happens to us and to those we love might seem meaningless. It may look as if evil is triumphing over goodness.

Ah! But there is hope. We are all part of the one amazing story of God. All will be revealed at the grand ending to our story. Till then – we can but hold onto the handlebars and enjoy the ride – perhaps screaming all the way, like relishing a Disneyworld adventure ride. The end will be worth it. So yes, my “Write Life” has been an exciting, fulfilling one – not without its challenges – but it has helped me know myself and to know what it is to be human. To grow in character through the power of words and to reach out gladly in the process so I can touch and bless my world.

Tied in Pink_JennyAnusha Atukorala has been in love with the English all her life. She’s also passionate about Jesus, life, family, friendship, reading, writing, music and the beauty of creation. Her first book ‘Enjoying the Journey‘ contains 75 stories of little lessons from everyday life. Her latest accomplishment is her first fiction story to be published in an Anthology called ‘Tied in Pink’ launched just yesterday – raising money for breast cancer research. (Follow links to find out more or purchase a copy.) Do drop in at her website, Dancing in the Rain, to say G’day – she’d love to connect with you.

The Write Life

Signing_USQBelieve it or not, writing is an extreme adventure activity. Thrilling highs can smash into bottomless lows as you careen past swift-changing scenery (or slow growing grass …), determined to deliver the stories in your mind to the rest of the world.

Something I’ve realised through my writing experiences is how much the writing process has taught me about myself and life generally. For anyone who’s followed my blog for a while, you’ll recognise snapshots of those insights in many of my posts. Yes, writers can have amazing fun, but there are also days when you wonder what ever possessed you to start a given project. You either give up, or grow in character. (Or sometimes give up for a while and THEN grow. 🙂 )

With this in mind, I am SUPER excited to be hosting a two month long series of guest blogs under the theme: The Write Life. You’ll be hearing from a wonderful cohort of Australian authors who will share gems from their own writing journeys. These writers have been in the ‘write scene’ for a long time now and will undoubtedly bring much wisdom to their posts.

I don’t know about you, but I can’t wait to get into this series. So strap yourself down and get comfy, ’cos this is going to be fun!